SciFi Realms Forum: SciFi Realms Forum -> Ha, haven't been in here for awhile.

I've decided that life is a soap opera/porn movie. And for the occasional engineer, geek, and scientist out there, a sci-fi aswell. Think & of 9 meets Seventh Heaven kinda deal.

Anyways, lifes great, and it really fucking sucks, and it's great, all at the same time, I'm loving it (You can go Mcsue my ass Ronald).

Since I went from great, to suckage, to great again, I'll start of with some great stuff. My Dad, who is now 50, is having another kid with his... fiance I think. Anyways, going to be a 'lil sister, and they going to name her Danu, after some Celtic goddess person. I think I'll nick-name her Dannie (Danny, same diff). Thats only half of what makes me happy; the other half is that based on the awesomeness of genetics, Like my father I should still be firing off strong and proud when I'm 50, which should keep spousal unit happy. So including my two little half borthers, the two little step-brothers that came with Dee (Dad's spousal-unit), New 'lil sister, and potentially another 'lil step brother if mom hooks up with this one guy, I'm going to have seven little siblings. Fuck me.

Next up is some of the more deprssing tidbits of life. Those of you on TU prolley saw my 30 000 word essay on the dealy. I've since lost the thread, and decided it is more worthy of a blog post anyways, plus summarised.

So I got to town on Dec. 10th to meet a girl I was kinda interested in at lunch. Her name is Steff, and she has a boyfrined. To my suprise and annoyance Steff brought a friend along named Alyssa. Even more annoyed was I when I heard she had a boyfriend (I like to flirt). Regardless, things go well, and Alyssa and I end up kissing eachother goodbye on the cheek.

Anyways, due to my new interest in Alyssa, I try to get ahold of her through Steff and Anna (another friend). Niether would let me get ahold of her, saying she didn't want to talk to me. Either way, through a shear feat of determination, I manage to get ahold of Alyssa the same night my horse was stolen AND I told Steff I was no longer interested in her (feelings I've had for awhile, but the motives to tell her didn't come up till stress from horse theft and partly Alyssa).

Things went swimmingly on our first "date." Real open with eachother and never did stop talking. Took us almost half an hour to order dinner because we forgot to look at the menu we were talking so much. Moon was out that night, so the night home got rather... romantic. She looked so beautiful with the moonlight shining off her golden hair.

Anyways, like most my past relationships, we decided it was best not to tell her parents that we were interested in eachother until later on, after they got to know me better. Technically she isn't allowed to date yet, but said her parents would make a special exception if I proved myself (has happened in the past appearently). So i tried to leave a good impression. At first it seemed to be working. Then several events happened.

She asked we set our relationship status on facebook. I was uneasy about this, but wanting to be a nice guy I set it anyways. So Craig, her asshole ex, sees this a few days later and calls up her mother about the deal. Her mother didn't like this, because she's the kinda parent that wants to know everythign and everything without havign to ask questions. First black mark.

Next big deal was Steff appearently raising hell over us. I dunno how she was going about doing this, but according to absolueally everyone she was raising a real stink up in Comox over the deal. This upset Alyssa's mom, cause she thoguht that now, not only did we "lie" to her, but I am driving her friends away.

Anyways, initially third time was a charm when there was a miss-communication between Alyssa's mom, grandmother, and I during a heart to heart we had about the topic of sex. Anyways, after that night, basically all contact with Alyssa went up the river, and I had to rely on her friends for info, which was shotty at best.

Alot of shit happened between that and the next bit that makes me mad at alot of people, but it isn't important. Next big point was that Alyssa and I wanted to see eachother on Jan. 7th, get square with everything as far as her folks go. So we did.

Conviniently someone called her house that day, asking, "Do you know where your daughter is?" This freaked the fuck out of me, and understandably freaked the fuck out of her parents. So I decided to walk her home, bad plan.

On walk I learned that we weren't allowed to see eachother or talk to eachother at all, before i just thought we were forbidden from dating. Other then that, a number of things were talked about, none of em important right now.

While I was walking her to her corner (as far as I would go knowing her mom doesn't want us together) her mom and grandmother show up. anyways, quite quickly I find out from them that we aren't allowed to be together, threats of restraining orders are flying all over the place, and I find out why... least why I think. According to them Steff told them after the sex conversation that I had pressured her into, and that we had sex. Niether of which are true. We talked about it, but never actually did anything.

Regardless, add up the shit against me here: I'm known as a lyer, someone who pressures girls into sex, someone who "followed" Alyssa home after she told me that she didn't want to see me anymore (initially she did because her mom was there when she was talking to me over phone, damage control), and someone who calls their house asking where their daughter is. I didn't do it, but they think I did. Look like sexual predator to me, so I can't imagine what was going through her mothers head. o.O

Anyways, this is hurts me alot more than usual because here I have a girl I like a whole shit-lot, which is as close to words I can bring it without making head esplode, a girl who likes me a whole shit-lot, and her pernets who wont allow us to even speak to eachother. And for those that think usual teenage relationshp where they think they are inlove, we talked about that, and agreed that love was way to strong a word to use for our feelings during the past month. But there is a ludicrous number of things about her I found out over the course of 2-3 weeks that I absolutally adore (aside from golden hair in the moonlight). She's easy to talk to, we're open with eachother, she has to meet a person for herself before she forms an opinion about them (otherwise we'd never have met), she's had problems in the past, knows about them, and has learned from them, has goals, which is alot more than what most people my age can say for themselves, she's trusting, isn't afraid of commitment (hell, we'd talk about how many kids we'd want to have ), knows how to cook good and likes to cook, likes to clean, likes to sleep in till 10am and wont bitch if I do too, she isn't scared away by my problems or past histories (I do have some stories to tell), and is a fucking gorgeous young woman. *sighs*

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Anyways, last happy deal, had my interviews for military and shit today. The assesment test I scored 53/60, or 88% Far better than most appearently. Was kinda akwards being in the exam hall and finsihing 5 minutes before everyone else per section. Interview was great, kept getting positive comments and praise from the officer asking me questions, and medicals seem to have gone well. They wondered if I was a runner because of my slow heartrate. got an odd look from the nurse when i told her i never really exercise save for the occasional bike ride to naniamo (100km) or the occasional 5-10km run (basically once in a blue moon).

If all goes well I could be in Basic Military Qualification (American slang: Boot camp) by end of march, give or take a month. Needless to say I'm quite happy about the whole deal. should get medical results back within the next 7 to 10 days, then i'll know for sure whether i'm in or not.

Anyways, talk to ya'll later.